How do u combine all of ur chats into one window in the toolbar? I hate having like them put into a group and i gotta search to find them. My friend has his friends in one toolbar window and he clicks on the above arrows to go to the friends he wanna talk to or he simple just look on their sign in names above. How did he do this?

Do you mean how do you group all of your chats together? Or do you mean how do you reposition the bar?

What exactly do you mean?

If you are refering to all of your chats into one window then do the following.

Main Contactlist Window
Click Plus! > Preferences > Instant Messages > Tabbed Chatting

Conversation Window

Click Plus! > Grouping Options > Preferences

Sorry my mistake i mean task bar not tool bar.

Right click your task bar, click properties

Check 'group similar taskbar buttons'

I think I know what you mean...

Right click the taskbar and select Properties. Then check the option to Group similar taskbar buttons. This will group all of you conversations into one taskbar button which I think is what you want, but it will also do it for every other application you have running (if more than one process) such as web browser etc that might become annoying.

EDIT: mwe

thanx a lot all the info u gave me helped