Okay I just downloaded windows live messenger and the plus feature also...And for some reason I cant put a picture up...I went into the features or whatever and clicked the box to use a picture and then I pick a picture but the box wont stay clicked....can someone help me out?!

On your contacts list, go to Tools > Change Display Picture.

Select your display picture. What exactly happens? What box won't stay clicked?

Tryed that.... Okay you know when ya go into personal settings...And after your name is there it says "My Display Picture" and under that there's a box that ya have to check to show your picture....It says " Show my display picture and allowed other to see it"....Well  I click that box then I go and try to change my pic but once I come back to that window the box in un-checked....get what i'm saying?