I'm looking for a winamp web remote
I've tried a couple and I can't get anything to work
I tried
wwwinamp,
ajaxamp
and a few others

Unless you are trying to remotely control Winamp (and not just listen to music), you might as well use something that is not related to Winamp, such as VibeStreamer (which I use and works great, with many epic options)

I don't want to stream anything because I have the machine using winamp attached to an awesome sound system then I want to change songs with my laptop

What about a remote control program like RealVNC?

because i want to change the song not move the mouse and control the whole computer it just seems unnecessary, like using an a-bomb to kill a fly,
I just want to change the song over a network, preferably from a browser so it's cross platform

I used to have something like this, i could use my phone as a remote. Let me see if I can find a link...

edit: here's 2 suggestions in this thread
http://forums.winamp.com/showthread.php?threadid=167023

And this is the one I had used before:
http://www.winamp.com/plugins/details/92511

if you feel like coding http://httpq.sourceforge.net/

ok i'm like the look of this one
http://www.winamp.com/plugins/details/92511
but I can't get the users set up