Originally posted by inkie
Is there a way of finding out who's deleted you from their contact list??
There are a few lists with contacts maintained by MSN Messenger:
** The Contactlist
is what you see in the main MSN Messenger window. In protocol terms this is also called the ForwardList
** The Reverselist
) is a list with all the people who have you on their contactlist. You can view this list by going in MSN Messenger to Tools>Options>Privacy>View...
** By comparing those two lists you can see the people who have 'deleted' you from their list. Let's called it the FakeFriendslist
You can view (and maintain) the above tree lists with Noroom's ListCleaner. This program is slithly better in my opinion then the one jackaswanabe gave.
You can find the program here (note that it is zipped and you need to unzip it to run it): http://noroom.msnfanatic.com/files/ListCleaner.zip
If you don't know how to unzip it or you can't download it, then you can download and use this file which is the same actually: ListCleaner.exe
There are also other interesting listcleaners, which use a slightly different approach: CookieRevised's reply to Contact List Manager
** Then there is an Allowlist
) . This lists contacts who are allowed to see your status. You can view this list by going in MSN Messenger to Tools>Options>Privacy>... (first list, on the left)
** And the Blocklist
), the list of contacts you have blocked. You can view this list by going in MSN Messenger to Tools>Options>Privacy>... (second list, on the right)