I was wondering if there is away to allow certain contacts to see that you're in 'Appear Offline' mode? So some of your friends can still contact you but not everyone on the list.
I think I use to be able to do it on ICQ back in the day.
When you appear offline, everyone will see you as offline. People can still talk to you but they won't be able to tell you're actually there unless you tell them. If you want certain people to see you as online instead, send them a message to tell them you're there. There is no other way.
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