about translating:
Since the initial idea was to alter the messages on top of the convo, we only have to translate "his/hers" like this:
MalePrefix=blahblah his blahblah
FemalePrefix=blahblah hers blahblah
BothPrefix=blahblah its blahblah
Undisclosed=blahblah his/hers blahblah
The messages could be hooked, there's no need to patch/alter anything. (I think)
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