I do not see why it's a violation of someone's privacy to be honoust. To give you an example.. Let's say you go the local grocer, and buy banana's.. Everyone in that grocer knows you got banana's.. And it's not like you put them under your jacket "cause you want no one to know you are going to buy banana's".
But ok, I can understand you might find it a violation of the protocol..
Anyway's, it was only an idea, I just thought to suggest it