Shoutbox

Erm... first i never had a GF before so dont take my advices as 100%

You like her, she likes you ok that is a good start.

Its probably not real love so dont get too worried but yeah the feeling is like you really care a lot about her. ( erm my help isnt getting any good ).


She is the only one who can decide that, you cant force her to be with you even if she wants to she is being kinda stopped by her old way of thinking.

Make her see that isnt the right way of thinking, that is the way people used to think 100 years ago.
Tell her if she really likes you other people dont have anything to do with that. People are not going to kill you both for walking around together you are the ones who decide, not the gossips.

If she cant understand that and still doesnt want to be with you because of it, you are not that important to her.


You people are just 13 year old, im not saying at your age "love" isnt important and wont cause you to be sad im just saying that you can forget her more easily.

When your hormones start jumping around ( that process probably started already but just wait until you get 15 ) you will feel attracted for girls more easilly, this is not exactly relevant for this case but could be useful in the future.


But if you are too lazy to read everything i said just read this:

If she cant be with you because she is afraid of what other people will think, forget her.