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Through a vast range of numerous different factors, a person can end up living a life of which he/she prefers to be attracted and have relationships which people of the same sex. These factors can be down to ...

1. The upbringing- If a child has homophobic parents then the child would find it hard and often resist any feelings he/she may have to a person of the opposite sex. If the childs parents has gay friends and is openly positive towards any homosexual people. The child would find it easier to handle any homormones that would produce homosexual feelings.

2.Genes- It is true that the cromozones within the gene structure can often alter the behaviour and feelings of the child. Although this is often only a small factor of turning out to be a homosexual.

3.Experiences- *Most people* throughough their lives will have had some homosexual thought or experience, it is just how you react to these feelings or experiences that will ultimately result in the hetro/homo sexuality of the person. If a person completely ignores the feelings they may be having towards a person of the same sex, this can just pass by but if somone takes action on these thoughts and say has a homosexual encounter.. And enjoys it.. This can be gay enforcement to their hormones.

I believe no person can be born gay, people can be born with more homosexual orianted hormones within their body, but through different situations throughout their life, this would ultimately determin whether or not the person would turn out to be gay.

Well that is basically what i think.

P.S i am not gay.
P.P.S i have nothing against gays.

copy pasting is lame.
homos are homos.

In between.

You can be gay when you're born, but you can choose to show your 'gayness', and be a heterosexual with babies...might be harder though...

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Originally posted by Voldemort
copy pasting is lame.
homos are homos.

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i sware i didnt copy and paste ANY of this honestly my mum is a councillor and she has to deal with this sort of thing so she tells me about it and ive asked her this same questions before about if som1 can be born gay or not .. but really i didnt copy and paste this

Its like the way you grew up, and the environment, i dont think you could be borned with it, thats the point imo

Maybe also the treatment you got in your childhood (i had read about people violated or aislated that then became gay

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Originally posted by WDZ
I can't imagine how your sexual preferences can be determined while you're still in the womb... O_o

There are gay babies?

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Originally posted by saralk
I don't think its either, it can't be genetic because the gay gene wouldn't be passed on. However, I don't think people choose to be gay.

Its probably a nurture thing, with the surrounding people are brought up in, not things like being forced to gay porn every day, but very suttle things.

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Yeah. Depends on how a person is raised and somehow what is ment to be.

I think... Very few people are born gay, and I'd put that down to something like what Mr. Riddle () was saying to do with the hormone "waves". I think other gay people make that choice because of how they are influenced, be it by adults, or friends, or whatever, whether they think it's "cool" or something, and it can happen anytime in life, so I suppose I believe that, in a way, some gay people do have a choice. Sometimes I'd even reckon people simply say it to be different or whatever. I'm not a homophobe, it just irks me how it seems so many people are that way nowadays, and I don't believe that very many of them were truely born that way.

Meh. Just my opinion.

I got a question for you. When I look at guys (I'm not gay!!) and think 'wow he's cute' just because I want to think like my GF. Just to see what could please her or what not (you got me), am I gay then?? Or sometimes I look at guys to see who's nicer guys or gals. And ( I don't want to sound arrogant) in my country the guys are the sexeh . Anyways, sometimes I have my fancies with guys ... Anyways. If you had been 'verarscht' (translate yourself) by girls that many times like me then you would think other... And stuff... WTF @ that thread? YTF am I replying????

traxor is gay..


I know that much.

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Originally posted by Stigmata
traxor is gay..


I know that much.

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OMGZ!!!!1111

btw where is he?