It can certainly be made
You just check all contacts for media at startup/signin
And then check with OnEvent_ContactMediaChange if a contact changes his song to the one specified
Then just open a chatwindow with Messenger.OpenChat and send the message specified with ChatWnd.SendMessage
(Would have to check if there's not already a window open with the contact)
I'm not gonna make it though, I'm busy for my own, and also got school... Perhaps you can look into it yourself, or maybe someone else can have a look at it...
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