i need help concerning how to send sound commands/emoticons. i had a little box that would allow me to send them that was next to the emoticons/ winks and backgrounds, but it disappeared. how do i get that box back so i can send sounds and such?
Emotion sounds are a feature of Messenger Plus!, not Messenger's itself. You have to install Messenger Plus! to send emotion sounds (and hear the ones your contacts send to you). http://www.msgpluslive.net/download
And if you have Messenger Plus! installed, you can enabled or disabled the emoticon sounds toolbar button in conversations by going to the preferences of Plus!:
Plus! > Preferences > Conversations > Main > "Add Messenger Plus! buttons in toolbar"
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