hello everyone, im new so don't get frustrated if i say all this wrong

i downloaded a skin to change the average looking light blue and white Messenger Plus! to a techno lime green style but it didnt really work, the msn dude was all coloured but i couldnt open the screen to sign in, is there any other more reliable ways of getting the same effect?
ash
p.s please use simple terms, like i said im new and techinical terms arn't easily digested lol