Shoutbox

you need to turn the option on

plus > plugins > Stuffplug-NG > configure   or type /xspoptions

make sure that "over sized DP's" is ticked

then add a new display picture, and you will get a box pop up that asks if u want to keep the orginal size or change the picture to 96 by 96.  select keep orginal size and your dp will be enlarge (aslong as the picture is over 96 by 96 of course). for your friend to see you new DP they may need to resize the chat window