Aeryn
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RE: Assistance needed on English class assignment
- What is your gender?
Female.
- (Optional) Your age and what do you do by occupation?
21, university student.
- Where are you from (country and where in the country) ?
Estonia (Tallinn).
- What is/are your native language(s)?
Estonian.
- When you are talking, how far away do you usually stand (or sit) from people? Please give your answers for
- family members
0.6 - 2 metres or so.
- intimate friends
0.6 - 2 metres again, although everything depends on the situation.
- normal acquaintances
1 - 2 metres.
- strangers
1.5 - 2 metres? Not sure. respectively.
- When you are talking, do you (consciously) touch the people you are talking to? If yes, how frequently? Please give your answers for
- family members
Usually not.
- intimate friends
Usually not.
- normal acquaintances
No.
- strangers
No. respectively.
- Continued: If people touch more frequently (than the answer you gave in the last question), how do you feel?
Depends on who it is that I'm interacting with, so I might feel neutral or slightly uncomfortable.
- In your culture, do people usually look at others when in an elevator?
No, not really. Maybe a quick, casual glance (especially when new person enters), but that's it. No staring.
- In your culture, do people try hard not to touch others when in an moderately-to-much-crowded elevator?
Quite hard, indeed.
- Do you look people in the eyes when you are talking to them? Note your answer may vary depending on whom you are talking to; please give your answer as detailedly as possible.
Usually I do look people in the eyes, because it gives more information on what they mean, feel, and so on. I only don't look them in the eyes (or rather, don't maintain a constant eye contact) with people I feel uncomfortable speaking with (usually some very 'dominating' kinda lecturers, etc).
- In your culture, do people maintain frequent (yet not excessive) eye contact when talking to others?
This varies a lot from individual to individual of course. I'd say that mostly people do try to maintain eye contact, but they don't always succeed (mainly cuz they feel uncomfortable or something). But at the same time, if it's not possible to keep eye contact with the other person, it doesn't really hinder communication that much.
- In your culture, what do people do non-verbally, when they first meet someone new? (for example, exchanging handshakes, bowing, ...etc)
Exchanging handshakes (but the more informal the situation, the less the handshaking occurs), and maybe a slight nod of head. Usually no hugging, kissing or bowing.
- Give your ideas about the special meanings (if any) of the following hand/body gestures and facial expressions in your culture:
- The OK sign: forefinger and the tumb joining a circle
Everything okay/well done. (It's very rarely used.)
- Crossing your fingers
Hoping that something will go well, wishing luck.
- Shurgging your shoulders
That you don't know or are unsure.
- Winking
Used to indicate some sorta secret or something between two (or more) people, mostly used in a joking manner. Or sometimes a wink accompanies the person's assurance that everything will go well. In some occasions also to catch someone's attention.
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