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O.P. RE: Sounds, colors, commands not working? please read!
Forgive me for I know this has been discussed at length but I am yet to understand why these things are happening.By all means delete this post if it is entirely repetative but I would be grateful if someone were to direct me to the relevant information.
I only use messenger plus sound event notifications for one of my 10 contacts so I don`t think I am overloading the system. When I sign into messenger I often see their icon in green with the information that they are online...so I send a "hi".Within seconds they change to grey icon and offline.The sound notification and pop up indicate the status and I have included a message in the pop up to tell me the status and the relevant music so I can see any discrepancies.But I often get conflicting information...such as they appear offline but their status changes several times withinn a short period.
The most recent pattern was as follows;
I log in Their icon is green Info ONLINE I say HI
a few secs Their icon is GREY Info OFFLINE
1 MINUTE A NEW CHAT EVENT SOUNDS WITH POP UP It doesn`t show in my window so I assume they are chatting to someone else
I send a message then go to APPEAR OFFLINE
4 MINUTES LATER....Their icon green and ONLINE
Claim that they haven`t received any messages or haven`t been online
In event log it displays all what has happened plus the added info that at some stage they were BUSY.
The four events I have assigned all work together..ie music and pop up and correlate...but this contact is adament that they are logged ina and out automatically yet the status changes bear no regular pattern.
I want to desparately sort this out.
Thanks for your patience [in anticipation]
This has wrecked my marriage,Because I was trying to build up trust and questioned the goings on...the changing of status...the logging off as soon as i appeared...the new chat started event notifier sounding when no chat box appeared in my window...the lack of effort to help me try to solve and understand these strange happenings all compounded doubt in me.It doesn`t happen with any of my other contacts but thank you for reading.
It should be a warning to any vulnerable partners.
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