Shoutbox

The "Allow me to connect directly to my contacts when sending messages" option has been greyed out in the MSN 7.5. This would be a bad thing if you would not be, but ... I'am sure, you will solve this much better!
I would like to ask a Plus! feature or a plugin that is able to make an audio or an audio/video chat between 2 users(each must have the software of course). And this would be good for file transfer too. File transfer should have a cache to allow resuming the transfer after some trouble. And if this use direct connect, some freely selectable encription would be good too if you could. I would prefer ssl. But the matter is the direct connect!
Thank you very much!