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Poll: Do you care if people insult you behind your back?
I don't mind if people say things behind my back; what I don't know can't hurt me
I always want the opportunity to defend myself, so I prefer they say it in front of me, even if it hurts
If it's something I can't control, I'd rather they say it when I'm not there, but if I can control it (like personality) then in front of me
If it's something I can control, I'd rather they say it when I'm not there, but if I can't control it (like looks) then in front of me
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Do you care if people insult you behind your back?
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O.P. Do you care if people insult you behind your back?
There's a situation: someone is going to make a joke, and it's at your expense. It insults something about you, either a personality trait, or something about your looks, etc.

Would you prefer this to be done behind your back, where you'll never find out about it (and subsequently not hurt you), or in front of you, where it may hurt you (but you'll get a chance to defend yourself)?

Feel free to discuss this too, of course. It's not just a poll.


This post was edited on 05-01-2008 at 01:33 AM by segosa.
The previous sentence is false. The following sentence is true.
05-01-2008 01:32 AM
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Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by segosa on 05-01-2008 at 01:32 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by prashker on 05-01-2008 at 01:43 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Lou on 05-01-2008 at 01:47 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Adeptus on 05-01-2008 at 02:11 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Aeryn on 05-01-2008 at 04:25 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by somelauw on 05-01-2008 at 09:04 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Jhrono on 05-01-2008 at 03:48 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Oxy on 05-01-2008 at 03:58 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Svip on 05-01-2008 at 04:24 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Sunshine on 05-01-2008 at 06:02 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Thor on 05-01-2008 at 06:15 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Voldemort on 05-01-2008 at 07:45 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Nathan on 05-01-2008 at 09:15 PM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Willz on 05-02-2008 at 01:15 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by John Anderton on 05-02-2008 at 09:01 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by Baggins on 05-03-2008 at 01:09 AM
RE: Do you care if people insult you behind your back? - by vaccination on 05-03-2008 at 06:54 AM


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