There are currently two plugins (for winamp) that does this for MSN.
MSN Messenger Now Playing Plugin - Download it if you just want to use it for MSN
or
The Toaster Plugin - Download if you want to do a little bit more customising on the winamp side.
They both work great on MSN...
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