I completly agree with what you are saying but here is a way around it. With the options window open press the ALT key on your keyboard then press the Space Bar. This should open the system menu. After its open press the letter M on your keyboard. This will allow you to move the window. Now press the UP arrow key and hold it. Once you have the buttons in sight press the Enter button on your keyboard.
What language of MSN Messenger are you using? English?
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