Shoutbox

How do I activiate the event where an MSN notification will let you know when someone has left the conversation.  This notification should appear in the conversation window.  How do i get this even to occur???

You can use MDX for that.
www.msgdiscoveryx.com

you download stuffplug  it will show who has left the convo in the window and show when someone opens a convo with you.

The instructions that will be given to activate notification for users leaving Messenger will only work if you are running Messenger Plus! addon

i)   Click the Plus! option on your Menu Bar
ii)  Preferences
iii) Notification
iv) Popup Defaults (Tab)
v)  Check the option that says "Contact goes offline"

Hope that will help.

cheers