Originally posted by Chris4
Have you asked them if they do have you on their list?
Yes, and they all said they've added me (and I believe them) but when I go to MSN Plus's Contact List Clean Up I get to see that they don't have me on their contact's list.
Originally posted by NoWhereMan
check with them (ask) whether they accepted you on http://profile.live.com, and you do the same.
(please report here if it worked for you, I'm trying to track down this strange problem as well)
Currently I'm testing to see if it has to do anything with the version of Messenger I'm using. Today I was normally chatting from my laptop (WLM 2009 version build 14.0.8117.416) without getting that message, but when I'm chatting from my PC (WLM 8.5 version) installed I constantly keep getting "...does not have you as a contact'"
Which Messenger version are you using?