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I would say at least discuss it with said girl. At least then you can figure out where she stands. I know some say 'keep it as friends', but life's a game, and I sure as hell enjoy playing it So should everyone

Edit: _James_ agrees with me it seems

try and find out wethr she feels the same first before you say anything or it may ruin your friendship..

Ask her wether she considers you more than a friend?
And see what she says and carry on from there

if you are real friends, that will not affect your relationship if its denied.

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Originally posted by _James_
try and find out wethr she feels the same first before you say anything or it may ruin your friendship..

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Thanks. I'm in the same situation as his "friend" and I dunno what to do. I have the intention of finding out how she feels first. GOod luck with it Dempsey's "friend"

come to think about it i'm getting there, i jsut started talking to some hot girl and she seems pretty friendly towards me so i'll see how that goes

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Originally posted by Msg Plus Freak
Ask her wether she considers you more than a friend?
And see what she says and carry on from there

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That's actually quite "dangerous".
It is like putting your hand inside an alligator's mouth, see what it does "and carry on from there."

I always feel the same thing Dempsey's experiencing.
I don't have any experience about what would happen if you really ask it.
For me, I will stay in "friend zone" as I don't want to lose the friendship.

But, Dempseys, please think about this.
You have a potential (future-wise).
You are a good programmer, who have a bright future, which means you can support your family when you are married in a few years.

If she can see those facts, I am sure that she also wants more than a close friendship
If she doesn't and you like her so much, as some people already said, "play it slow and be careful."

when it happened to me.

i just told her that i had feelings for her. and she didnt have them for me, and things are still fine

Go for it

Hit it up poontang style

lol seriously I am in that "friend zone" way too much some of them i rather be there others not so much. Sometimes you just have to take a risk, ask her what she would do if she developed feelings for you, would she tell you or would she shy back and keep it to herself.

Tell your friend to  Flirt with her and see what happends if she flirts back i think he should tell her how he feels.


I hope this works out for your "friend"