Shoutbox

I had an account which i closed off because everytime i turned someone would add me from a different account with a romantic name and insult me(i knew it was same person ,they added me from 20 emails) ,my account was not posted anywhere and i had a gut feeling of who it would be .I even searched my email and it wasn't found .I now have a knew account and I made sure 100% I wouldn't post it anywhere and even my profile it doesn't allow anybody to add me .Now the whole mess is starting again with my knew account .My question is there any way it would some random person ,or does have to be someone that is on my contact list (somebody that knows me).I am being stalked online and want it to end ,where I live they don't consider this a crime .   P.s I also want to find out who the hell is harrassing me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!