Shoutbox

I figured you knew that, seeing as you were looking for it.
Anyway, taken from that page (description of program):

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This program allows you to delete all blocked contacts from your list, and it also deletes people who you have on your list, but you're not on their list. A handy little tool

Note: You will also need to have ActiveX installed on your computer in order for this program to work...you can find ActiveX on windows update site under recommended updates (if it's not there then you have it installed already)

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Edit: I see now Millenium_Edition advised it, though he should've mentioned how to use it. A known problem that could cause this bug is that there are too many people on your allow list. Use this program to remove some/many from the allow list.