My point is that people like to be creative, and not just have a standard view of things. That's why the car customizing business is so popular for example. There are other people like me, like it or not, who want to customize their desktop appearance. This is also why they integrated the abilitiy into the Windows operating systems. However, it's limited, but open to such designers and programmers as the Messenger Plus team, people who have the skill to program at this level should let their creativity be expanded by their users.
Politeness is your perception. Why do you try to impose your views on others? I'm not saying don't stand up for what you believe, calling me rude is the way YOU interpreted me, and to me, the way you interpreted me was rude, so stop being rude