The server maybe down in your area etc and there is nothing you can accept wait.
Unless you use
xerver which connects to a new server after 3 unsuccful attempts
Download X Server here
Quoted by a messenger help website:
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This error usually appears when there are problems on the MSN Messenger servers. Check the .NET Messenger Service status to see if this is the case. If there are problems, wait until they are over and do not try to fix anything on your computer.
It can also be that MSN Messenger tries to connect through a proxy server and this server is not responding. You can try making MSN Messenger connect directly to the Internet: click Tools in the MSN Messenger menu, then choose Options.... In the MSN Messenger options screen select connection in the list to the left. Then click the Advanced Settings... button. In the screen that appears try unchecking all the checkboxes except TCP. Restart MSN Messenger and see if it connects now. If it still does not connect set the checkboxes back and contact the network administrator and ask him take a look at the proxy server.
![[Image: advanced-connection-settings.png]](http://www.msn-problems.com/images/advanced-connection-settings.png)
Does that help?
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