Shoutbox

I think each to their own... If the option is there to not appear online and u dont want to use it dont... if u want to use it...do

If you are worried about being spied on why did u let ppl on your friends list?

Block/appear offline/appear online who cares some people may not want to talk to you..deal with it

Its just an option dont like it dont use it... dont like others using if take them off ur list

easy