Shoutbox

I'm sorry, but only "Accept requests by default" is an option that you can choose, but not changing options on auto messages. In fact in Messenger Plus!3 you could only do it once a personalised status was in effect.

I have checked high and low, left and right and still can't find it.

Unless you are able to provide the command or the method used, I can say, what in the world are you on about??? snAke_LeAder has provided you with an alternative and in fact you also can do it once a personalised status is activated in Messenger Plus! Live.