Unfortunately, no, there's no way you can censor them that I know of. However, you can remove them, and talk to your daughter, because, apart from sounds, nothing gets added on their own (Sounds get added when a contact sends it to you).
To remove:
- An emoticon: Open a conversation, click the smiley face > Show All > On custom emoticons, select the emoticon and remove it.
- A wink: Click the
face > Show All > On custom winks, select the wink and remove it.
- Sound Effects: Click the speaker > "sound library" at the bottom > Select the sound and delete it.
You can set a filter on the Internet Browser your daughter that censors everything not suitable for her. (Which browser is it?!) and that way she wont be able to download them.
For the sounds, simply click the speaker > "sound library" > sound preferences and remove the checkmark from "automatically download sounds"
Good luck.